Various Q&A

 Question: A person from an Asian country is asking about a bizarre case. Two sisters were living in the adjacent houses with their husbands and children. Both sisters practiced Islam the way they know best, which is based on culture and learned Information. Out of the two husbands, one is low in manliness while the other is strong and inspiring. The strong one was an inspiration for the low manly person's entire family for some time. This prevented low manly person's wife from showing too much bitterness about her husband and this couple had 6 children. Two are very beautiful and decent daughters. For whatever reason, low manly person didn't have too close bond with other strong man and therefore he became foolish and ended up molesting his two daughters. But because of Allah's mercy,rape didn't happen. The wife didn't know, but she too has developed dislike for him. The two daughters are devastated. What's the just view of this?

Answer:

Concepts discussed:

*Admired following (ittibaa)

*Intentional kind touch

*Keeping aggressive emotions in check

* Real feminity and importance of masculine influence on females.

* Correct manly strength 

There maybe fault of everyone here, except the daughters.

If a man works aggressively to earn money,his psychology is going to be altered. Yes or no?

Any normal person can have dirty desires,but he knows how to keep them away. Antibiotics can keep that away. Rape is not a desire of just lust. It's about showing power. To have desire for one's children is not just shaitaani,it's inhuman.

Women don't mind men working aggressively to earn unnecessary money,but they can't face it's consequences. When a man works hard to please people,a wife must remind him that some of his natural human sensations can be blunted. If she can produce children,this much awareness is a must for a healthy women. Good disbelievers know and therefore Muslims ought to know better.

In the story above, there's a big chance that the low manly person had more admiration for another evil person and therefore his brother in law's influence on him faded. This is about the hormones of the heart.

If a man has beautiful daughters,it's a big blessing. Listen carefully now until the end. If a father of honour,Muslim or otherwise, has beautiful daughters, his attraction to them is very different and pure. He can admire their beauty(face, speech,hair...etc) and his chest becomes light. He would generally want to tease them, gently hug them or hold their hands. By doing so,a father's hidden evil emotions are cleared. Fathers with izzah(honour) can interact with daughters without causing fasaad. When a man neglects these and focus on mobile phone and useless social relations,he can only like big evil.

When a man starts acting clumsy or dishonourable,he must be reminded whoever it is.

Can young girls negatively influence other men to develop lust? Yes, if girl's father didn't given them masculine strength. And therefore evil people are motivated to look at them in a wrong away. If young girls(weak in feminity) go to crowded places full of evil people,their faces get affected and now the words coming from their mouth have hidden messages. And the evil men who are triggered strongly are those whose gonads(pelvic area) are affected by devil's influence because they didn't adhere to shariah in bedroom etiquette. This problem can be corrected by being generous to people and struggling to solve a person's difficulties.

Question: Why recommend food for curbing "unnecessary lust feelings"

The "unnecessary lust feelings" originate from colonic pathogens or very dirty gut bacteria. The correct human marriage affection grows from the heart. Heart gets it's specific food at the time of marriage. If a person cant differentiate these two,he will become blind.

How can a father prevent another "Noor Muqaddam" case?

Noor Muqaddam was Pakistani young girl. Was from high status family and highly educated. Father is a big achiever and diplomat.

She became obsessed with a rich bad guy. One night she left home to visit this guy and the next day the news broke "Noor Muqaddam has been xxxx xxxx xxxx". Similar to the latest news Maldivians heard recently

The misguided person would say she didn't have high level Islamic education. This view is wrong. To make your children behave with basic human dignity,not much of Islam required. But honour in social relations are required.In fact, the right Islamic solution can't be even practiced by many Muslims because they are restless about food. It's a Sunnah for the father to gently hug and kiss his adult daughter which will stabilize her bad emotions and she develops more obedience to the father. To practice this Sunnah without causing fasaad,the father must have masculine strength or what Islam calls izzah(honour) or Quwwa.

What's man with izzah like?

If he hears that a big rowdy Maldivian is about to go to India and get a wife using money,this honourable person will immediately say to this rowdy man that he needs to be severely beaten until some sense come to him. This is the strength of the heart. Such a person can hug and kiss(cheek) his daughter and there won't be any evil emotions.

A CCTV video of Noor Muqaddam  case shows she was trying to escape and ran towards the gate. But the evil man simply held her one hand and took her inside with somewhat big ease. Even a child can't be taken this easily.

The girl didn't get basic masculine strength from her father. End of story.

Ok for many men,it's not possible to practice this Sunnah,then what? The father can gently slap on her cheek jokingly and tell her to behave better. If she improves,buy a gift.

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Question: Some Muslims travel to different countries and suddenly their character changes and depression starts. When a scholar is asked what to do he would just say "you need to fear Allah". What's the solution?

Answer: The answer is going to be bitter. Few Muslim lands are unsafe for weak Muslims. The population in these places may not have basic human essence. One south east Asian country is an example. The population is obsessed about superstitious things. Their food is extremely weird because they can eat rice in the morning. The other country has a big Chinese population who aren't just godless in belief but extremely obsessed about gambling and lottery. Any interest in these causes brain/face alterations in any human. After seeing these faces too often ,a Muslim who is weak in his Deen may start getting weird ideas and even weird dreams. The Italians and French maybe little better because they have adopted certain Islamic cultural things such as eating olives and cheese. Their life perspective is little brighter. To visit less damaged disbelievers land is better.

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A person talks to an endocrinologist about a psychological/social issue.

Man : Doc,how do men produce children when their behavior doesn't show any signs of sound emotional expressiveness. They don't even understand children's complaints and how to deal with them? Degradation of family values are happening right in front of them and they can't see. That bedroom part requires a lot of strong emotions, right? Do these people have magical power?

Doc: You have seen South East Asian men who can father a dozen children and look very unmanly with a weak physical build and depressive look on the face? They don't have much social aptitude and their conversations with friends would be generally about becoming rich and this is their most predominant emotion, something people in your community can't feel. All ambition driven racists have immensely powerful emotions. Are these emotions good or bad,that's the issue. They won't feel anything if they see half nude women which is a sign of human emotional deficit. They must atleast feel ashamed and strongly determined to stop it using peaceful methods. Coming to your question now, bedroom part can be independent from producing children for selfish people. Bedroom part requires strong emotions of whatever type and there will be consequences. A person with a violent rage for a neighbour can produce these emotions with deceptive smiles. That's why some men must be prevented from marrying unless they can do a very big sacrificing things for people. Aphrodisiacs simply amplify these violent emotions.

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Question: There's a person in a city who claims to be a spiritual specialist and teaches people certain rituals. One of them is about how to get respect from people. He firmly says "I teach only that's is Sunnah"

Answer: Islam has no shortcuts to achieve things. You must try to perfect obedience to Allah and not demand specific things from Allah. Asking for protection and guidance are ok but asking for a new car, increase in wealth and other selfish desires lead to narcissistic mindset.

In Islam,there are no spiritual specialists. Only learned scholars exist. They only teach what people can understand with kindness and inspiration.

Getting respect from people is not possible without strong Deen and strict akhlaaq. People with desire for "getting respect from people" using these techniques are interested in manipulation of other people's minds to get benefit. For example,they may go to a shop and give a certain look at the seller and the unaware seller gives a discount. This is categorically haraam in Islam. Devil's help is involved here and it's not the help of Allah Al Aziz or Allah Al Qawi(strong). Muslims should seek protection from this type of people if they travel to certain so called Muslim cities like Indonesia, Nigeria or Turkey.

"He says he teaches only which is from Sunnah". This is a big lie. If he teaches the sunnah why do people flock to him? If a person teaches authentic Sunnah,not many would run to him because he wouldn't make Deen look irrationally easy.

To be respected with Allah's guidance means you have the inspiring power to influence people to do good or humble evil people. This is not easily granted. Authentic speech(Qawlan sadeedaa) is a big requirement to get this ability.

A person with true Islamic honour can easily detect exaggerated speech of a fake scholar. 

In Arabic, it's called "izzah" or "jaah" or "sharaf"